Not too long ago, R and I made a pretty big decision. Well, besides the decision to have a baby.
We decided that I would quit my job.
Let me tell you. Before I had Avery I always thought I would work and have kids. I mean, I am a woman of the 2000's right? Both my parents worked and raised my brother and I. Ronnie's parent's worked and raised he and his brother. So I just thought that's the way it would be.
Enter this cutie face.
And for about a year I was content. I was somewhat successful at work, worked for a fantastic company and Avery was having a ball playing with her cousins everyday.
Peyton- this is the cousin Avery usually wants to say 2 prayers for. She loves her Peyton!
Kelli Lynn-Avery's playmate and teacher. Everything Avery knows she says she learned from Kelli.
Mason- The oldest of the great-grandkids. Avery is the youngest for now. Love they got to spend so much time together.
And then I realized I wasn't THAT happy. I wanted to be at home with Avery and any future kids. R wanted to the same for our family so we worked to make it happen. We had a goal that by the time kid #2 came along, I would stay at home.
I could dedicate an entite post to what we did to prepare for one income. Most importantly we took a hard look at our budget, made some cuts that weren't easy (getting rid of OU football season tickets and cable, for example) and started living on 1 income. Some things were easy, some were hard. But we had to remember what we were doing it for.
Tommorrow I start my new job. Stay at home mom. The hardest thing I had to do was tell my supervisor I was leaving. I worked for a great company and had an even better supervisor. I made some wonderful friends that I know I will be keeping in touch with (in fact, one will be my neighbor, yay!) and I will miss those friends dearly.
But, for our family, this is the right decision. A decision that took a lot of prayer, thought, and a big leap of faith. I look forward to spending some time with Avery before New Kid comes along. I know it won't be easy and there will probably be times that I want to go back to work but for now, I'm going to appreciate the blessing we've been given.
All in all, I did it for this girl. The love of my life. The one I can't imagine my life without and can't remember my life before her. And for New Kid. Who has already captured our hearts and I know will be loved beyond measure.
Tomorrow starts No More Monday's for me. I'm nervous, excited, anxious, scared and many many more. And I can't wait.
More adventures to come.